Are you trying to plan your elopement but are stuck on how to create your timeline?! If you haven’t been to a ton of weddings and aren’t working in the wedding industry, you probably have no idea where to start!! That’s why I wanted to guide you through my top 3 tips for planning your elopement/wedding timeline today!
Every elopement timeline is completely different for every couple – no day will look the same! Elements of your timeline will depend on your location, time of day/year you’re eloping, what activities you’re including, your guest count, and soooo much more. It’s super important to hire vendors you trust to help bring your perfect timeline & day together since they’re the professionals!
So let’s get into my top 3 tips to help y’all plan a smooth AF elopement timeline!
First, you’ll want to decide whether you want to hold the main part of your elopement around sunrise or sunset! These are the times of day that you’ll get the most beautiful lighting. They will give you a super peaceful atmosphere to celebrate in!
This choice will depend on a lot of elements of your elopement, for example:
Keep in mind that a sunrise elopement will most likely help you avoid the most crowds!! If you’re eloping at a highly-visited outdoor location at a busy time of year (e.g. summer at Cannon Beach), you’ll want to find the best time to avoid too many crowds around you. Sunset is usually more crowded at many spots! But, if you’re down to hike to a more secluded area to get to your location, sunset might be totally fine for your elopement!
If you don’t want to choose one or the other, you could totally do BOTH!! Book your vendors for part of the day at sunrise, take a break in the middle of the day to eat/rest/etc., and then finish your elopement experience at sunset. You’ll get the best of both worlds!!
For sunrise elopement inspo, check out Ricki + Jake’s Sunrise Elopement at the Samuel H. Boardman Scenic Corridor!
And for sunset elopement inspo, take a look at Taylor + Page’s Unique Oregon Coast & California Redwoods Adventure Elopement!!
Second, PLEASE make sure your wedding timeline includes plenty of time to chill!! Don’t create your wedding timeline in a way that limits you or is super strict – e.g. only giving yourself 10 minutes for a 10-minute drive, only leaving 5 minutes between your ceremony and portraits, etc.
ALWAYS plan for things to go wrong or to run late – that way, you don’t end up stressed of frantic if your wedding timeline gets changed around on the day of. Add in plenty of extra time throughout the day for you two to chill and take a break, and so you avoid feeling rushed!!
Your elopement is meant to be a day for you to enjoy and be present in, and it’s hard to be present if you’re feeling rushed or “behind schedule.” So planning in advance for some flex time will be a game-changer & allow you to just go with the flow of the day + make changes as needed!!
One way to take some time to be present with one another is to get ready together! This allows you a space to enjoy each other’s company, slow down, and prepare for the day by each other’s side. Taylor & Jayko spent the morning of their elopement getting ready with their son. This allowed plenty of time for them to enjoy it!
Finally, have backup plans in place!!
This goes along with the second tip – you want to do everything possible to make sure you have the most STRESS-FREE, enjoyable, chill day possible. And making backup plans is an important part of that!
If you run into an issue with a location, like you get stuck in traffic or a road ends up being closed, having a backup plan will allow you to go with the flow and change plans as you need to. Whereas if you have zero backup plans and get stuck with a closed road or bad weather, you’ll just end up stressed and panicking to figure out a solution!
Miriam & Braulio planned to have a yummy dinner outside of their Airbnb for their intimate wedding. But, the weather ended up being so windy and rainy that they had to move it inside! It ended up being so beautiful & perfect still because they had a place to move indoors if it was needed.
If you’re eloping outdoors, plan for the worst possible weather and think through solutions ahead of time! What will you do if it rains? Are you down to get married in the rain or would you rather go somewhere indoors? What about if the trail you’re planning to hike gets closed down, or gets snowed in earlier in the year than planned?
Before your elopement, list out everything you can think of that could go wrong. Then, make backup plans & figure out potential solutions for each one! This will help make sure you know what to do on the day of if plans change. And, you won’t be stressed about anything with your timeline!!
There you have it y’all, my top 3 wedding timeline tips to ensure a smooth AF day!! If you’re looking for more helpful elopement resources, check out some of my recent favs below!